dispiriting


dispiriting (http://definr.com/dispiriting)

     adj 1: destructive of morale and self-reliance [syn: demoralizing,
             demoralising, disheartening]
     2: causing dejection; "a blue day"; "the dark days of the war";
        "a week of rainy depressing weather"; "a disconsolate
        winter landscape"; "the first dismal dispiriting days of
        November"; "a dark gloomy day"; "grim rainy weather" [syn:
         blue, dark, depressing, disconsolate, dismal, gloomy,
         grim]